From ToyboxCharley at http://MyRacyToybox.com
Men fail in attempts to stimulate their woman’s G-spot
There have been some questions recently, by men, asking about why they cannot get a response from their women partners when trying to stimulate their G-spots. We did a little study of the information which is out on this subject, and there are a couple of points which are frequently, if not almost always forgotten. So here we go.
First of all, it is important to say that a small percentage of women seem to simply not be able to respond to this class of stimulation. We said ’seem’ because it is obviously not possible to be present when this failure occurs, with the opportunity to observe what is being done, and advise if some part of the procedure is lacking or incorrectly practiced. So, if you have followed everything we mention here, and your partner still says she’s not getting much or enough pleasure from it, it just could be that she is resistant to this class of stimulation.
What is the G-spot, after all?
The urethra, through which urine is discharged, runs parallel to, and in front of, the vagina. This tube is surrounded by a spongy erectile material commonly called the urethral sponge. It is served by a wealth of nerves, and is thought to be erectile (perhaps among other things) in order to prevent urination during intercourse.
Locating the G-spot
During arousal, this sponge becomes swollen with blood, and can be massaged through the front wall of the vagina. Locating the G-spot is not so difficult, and most guides simply say it is to be found about 5 cm (2 inches) within the vagina and on the front wall. That is essentially true, but note that the G-spot, like anything else on the human body, can be somewhat deeper or even somewhat shallower in unique bodies.
Stimulating the G-spot
Do not begin by trying to arouse your partner by massaging this area. However, when she is already aroused, the sponge will engorge itself with blood, and then you will be able to feel the different, more solid, even rough, texture of the area found a short finger length inside the vagina and to the front.
Men whose partners have taught them that a light touch is best on the clitoris, may not press hard enough to have the desired effect on the G-spot. Speed is not the answer with the G-spot, but rather a moderately solid, slow moving massage, some say from back to front. Your partner will let you know if you are doing it right. The information in the last few sentences is often the key to a completely different and successful G-Spot experience.
One Last Thing – Female ejaculation
There are glands associated with the urethral sponge, which produce a liquid not unlike the lubricant produced by the prostate in aroused men. In some cases, during orgasm, after orgasm, or when a sex toy or penis is removed from the vagina, there is a flow of these liquids which is sometimes called ejaculation. Although frequently it is of a small quantity, it can be surprisingly voluminous.
Now let’s put all this to use
You may have noted that sextoys made especially for G-spot stimulation have a smooth curved tip, specifically for reaching the spot and delivering the desired solid pressure. During intercourse, some women enjoy their men to enter them from behind, and to position themselves high to have the penis press downward inside hoping to reach the G-spot. Other women like the on-top position where they can control exactly what is going on. But it is still likely that you will give the greatest joy and receive the greatest response, by manually stimulating this area. The finger can do it, but often from a somewhat uncomfortable and tiring position, while a gently curved toy like the Elegant Lover G-Spot Vibrator, a vibrating G-Spot Stimulator, will be most satisfactory.
Enjoy!