Sex toys make sex a ’sharing’ experience
From ToyboxCharley at http://MyRacyToybox.com
Do you share sex with your partner, or is it a personal gratification for each of you?
Would you agree that with the use of toys you are ‘giving,’ along with the ‘getting‘?
My ‘ToyboxCharley’ Twitter bio says, “Sex toys are not bizarre, surreptitious, or immoral. They offer all sexual persuasions a richer sexual experience.”
We really believe that! Sex is such an intimate thing that there is a tendency to sense a Victorian attitude which sees all these sex products as reserved for improper, immoral, or bizarre activities for which we should be ashamed. Modern medical and psychiatric thought refutes that perception completely. If you are a user of sex toys, although you may not announce that to all contacts, it is certainly not something to be ashamed of.
In a very low key daytime conversation with a 50-ish member of my wife’s family and his wife, the subject of adult toys came up as a result of my working with this site. They said that they had never tried any such thing, and felt a little timid about even bringing up the subject.
With no more ado, we gave them a boxed, very simple, moderately sized, vibrating toy, and went on to other subjects. Some time later during another visit, they calmly said that the use of that toy and others that they acquired had really changed not only their enjoyment of sex, but even more importantly, had profoundly changed the level of intimacy and openness of their sexual relationship after many years of little changing sexual routine.
Surely such is the case with many couples of some years, where pleasant sex is routinely experienced, but where it has become considerably less of a sharing experience and more of a personal gratification for each partner. When you touch your partner with a toy, you are giving, sharing, at a level that is difficult to match without that helper. The real problem is to recognize that the relationship and the experience are not at their best, and that there are simple and easy options which can improve them immensely.
ToyboxCharley
